Sometimes I wonder how easily we use word love without realizing the actual meaning of it it seems everyone running after their dreams and desire and in the process of achieving it either one make compromises in life or or follow the give and take management system and start calling it love and unfortunately we are not responsible for it because we have grown up seeing all this. though the intensity of compromises and give and take system varies from relation to relation in a husband wife relationship it could be maximum and in mother and son/daughter and brother and sister relation it could be lesser .Though there are no predefined rule for this but I still wonder what is a true love then...........
Tuesday, March 12, 2019
Tuesday, January 8, 2019
Life lessons (22/08/18)
Clarity of vision is very important
yes i still maintain it of the very thought of taking seminars on business and life or the public speaking to be very specific excites me creates sensations in my mind and other things like money fame etc does not excite me internally it is only used to show others mostly (though the money is required to strike balance in life and to survive in this world).
Nobody will take pain or interest in any work unless something is at stake be it money or reputation.
That is what exactly happened in asam we were dependent on dada and he was not interested at all in doing it though respected friendship but here professionalism was required not friendship.though we could have done it ourselves but it was very far not much initiative from the asdm side we could not afford a dedicated employee there, fund crisis was a slight issue because any how we could have managed it.
yes i still maintain it of the very thought of taking seminars on business and life or the public speaking to be very specific excites me creates sensations in my mind and other things like money fame etc does not excite me internally it is only used to show others mostly (though the money is required to strike balance in life and to survive in this world).
Nobody will take pain or interest in any work unless something is at stake be it money or reputation.
That is what exactly happened in asam we were dependent on dada and he was not interested at all in doing it though respected friendship but here professionalism was required not friendship.though we could have done it ourselves but it was very far not much initiative from the asdm side we could not afford a dedicated employee there, fund crisis was a slight issue because any how we could have managed it.
Tuesday, January 23, 2018
Daily Learnings (24/01/18)
There are two interesting learning
1.How to think only positive.
2.How our mind defines any belief and makes us happy or sad.
Coming to the first point every one agrees with the concept of positive thinking but sometimes we do it according to our convenience and that is where the problem arises.For example if we are getting late for any event we convince our mind by finding the reason why its ok to be late and if the reasons are genuine you will feel happy now just reverse the situation and say you are waiting for some body now you will start getting irritated and convince your mind by finding all the reasons why its not good and definitely you will not be happy. So look at the contrast we are using the habit of thinking positive but according to our convenience but the real positive thinking says you have find the reasons to be happy in the second situation as well.Another example if we take is if somebody says that if you look at the people who are junior to you in all respect then you will be happy but here is one small twist in it if you are trying it as substitute for not doing good then its not right in fact our mindset should be like whatever has happens has happened for good and i should keep trying and looking at people below you can be included but it should not be like a substitute for your lack of performance or your mind set could be like totally forget about power i am happy with whatever i have got i could get there if i try but there is no point because however hard you try in the end you will get zero now again the concept of looking at people below you can be included not fully replaced.
Second point is how the belief varies from person to person like while praying to god most of the people say that take off your shoes first now those saying this will not be happy but i do not have this issue because i have a belief that if you think good about people do good to people god will be happy remaining thing does not matter so if even i will think for a while then forget it .and
1.How to think only positive.
2.How our mind defines any belief and makes us happy or sad.
Coming to the first point every one agrees with the concept of positive thinking but sometimes we do it according to our convenience and that is where the problem arises.For example if we are getting late for any event we convince our mind by finding the reason why its ok to be late and if the reasons are genuine you will feel happy now just reverse the situation and say you are waiting for some body now you will start getting irritated and convince your mind by finding all the reasons why its not good and definitely you will not be happy. So look at the contrast we are using the habit of thinking positive but according to our convenience but the real positive thinking says you have find the reasons to be happy in the second situation as well.Another example if we take is if somebody says that if you look at the people who are junior to you in all respect then you will be happy but here is one small twist in it if you are trying it as substitute for not doing good then its not right in fact our mindset should be like whatever has happens has happened for good and i should keep trying and looking at people below you can be included but it should not be like a substitute for your lack of performance or your mind set could be like totally forget about power i am happy with whatever i have got i could get there if i try but there is no point because however hard you try in the end you will get zero now again the concept of looking at people below you can be included not fully replaced.
Second point is how the belief varies from person to person like while praying to god most of the people say that take off your shoes first now those saying this will not be happy but i do not have this issue because i have a belief that if you think good about people do good to people god will be happy remaining thing does not matter so if even i will think for a while then forget it .and
Thursday, January 18, 2018
Daily Learning (19/01/18)
Jo Hota hai ache ke liye hota hai
This saying is very true in my experience because in any situations positives are more than the negative but our minds tend to go more towards negative usually and in some cases specially if the problem is very big or complicated and specially if it is related to health wealth and relationships and the irony is that it changes according to the situation if you ask a businessman who has suffered a heavey loss he will say firstly money is my problem then anything else and if you ask person who is hospitalized he will say boss firstly i need to get well soon then anything else and if you ask a person who has just seperated from a joint family or got divorced or living alone say he or she will say"sab log rahte hai to hara bhara rahta hai acha lagta hai".
so my point is that it is up to you which side do yo see mostly decides your happiness for example i get very tense if i see my bad experiences but if i keep reminding myself the above saying then genuinly i start seeing the big positives some examples are given below.
1.I have got variety of experiences in less time which people do not get opportunities.
2.Sometimes i feel partnership is a baggage but if you see initial 3 4 years i got the decent start but i was not able to grow which i wanted and the reason is simple for growing you need to experiment or take risk for which organization needs money but everyone involved have their personal liabilities (including me being in a joint family and after getting married) we were fulfilling our own stomach so were not able to grow .what partnership did to me(specially with a young talented and ambitious person)is that it forced me to take risks and experiment which could not do when i was alone.
3.Partnership also taught me about my weaknesses and what is the role of management specially and lot many things but most importantly it fulfilled the gap which i required.
and lot many things but now i need to re arrange myself and move on in business and life towards the ultimate objective to be happy and to keep people around you happy till then keep learning there is much to explore.
and keep reminding yourself genuinly "jo hota hai ache ke liye hota hai" to grow in life.
Thank you
This saying is very true in my experience because in any situations positives are more than the negative but our minds tend to go more towards negative usually and in some cases specially if the problem is very big or complicated and specially if it is related to health wealth and relationships and the irony is that it changes according to the situation if you ask a businessman who has suffered a heavey loss he will say firstly money is my problem then anything else and if you ask person who is hospitalized he will say boss firstly i need to get well soon then anything else and if you ask a person who has just seperated from a joint family or got divorced or living alone say he or she will say"sab log rahte hai to hara bhara rahta hai acha lagta hai".
so my point is that it is up to you which side do yo see mostly decides your happiness for example i get very tense if i see my bad experiences but if i keep reminding myself the above saying then genuinly i start seeing the big positives some examples are given below.
1.I have got variety of experiences in less time which people do not get opportunities.
2.Sometimes i feel partnership is a baggage but if you see initial 3 4 years i got the decent start but i was not able to grow which i wanted and the reason is simple for growing you need to experiment or take risk for which organization needs money but everyone involved have their personal liabilities (including me being in a joint family and after getting married) we were fulfilling our own stomach so were not able to grow .what partnership did to me(specially with a young talented and ambitious person)is that it forced me to take risks and experiment which could not do when i was alone.
3.Partnership also taught me about my weaknesses and what is the role of management specially and lot many things but most importantly it fulfilled the gap which i required.
and lot many things but now i need to re arrange myself and move on in business and life towards the ultimate objective to be happy and to keep people around you happy till then keep learning there is much to explore.
and keep reminding yourself genuinly "jo hota hai ache ke liye hota hai" to grow in life.
Thank you
Tuesday, January 16, 2018
Daily Learnings (17/01/2018)
Today there are few more learnings about entrepreneurship, recently we have applied a project in ASAM state and after plenty of investment and running around we could not open any center but as always there are some negative parts but some positives also if we have the right attitude.So the leanings are
1.Selection of the project
We knew there is not much work so the scope for increasing the ROI like we could open only one centre initialy.Some fear regarding registrainon of the new company.
2.Expanding in other states
IT increases the project cost which becomes difficult specialy if we have limited funds.(but anyways that is why we say business is all about taking risk).
3.But still keeping oneself motivated by seeing the positive side of it.
We have got some network in Asam our partners have got some experience of this project at the same we have also got the experience of working in other state.
4.Never loose the hope if there is any
At the same time we have still got some hope of starting the project if we keep our head cool and think about the ways.
5.Hard to sideline anyone without any solid rason
You can not sideline any of your partner or employee unless you catch them red handed and they can not justify.
Thank You
Thats it for today
1.Selection of the project
We knew there is not much work so the scope for increasing the ROI like we could open only one centre initialy.Some fear regarding registrainon of the new company.
2.Expanding in other states
IT increases the project cost which becomes difficult specialy if we have limited funds.(but anyways that is why we say business is all about taking risk).
3.But still keeping oneself motivated by seeing the positive side of it.
We have got some network in Asam our partners have got some experience of this project at the same we have also got the experience of working in other state.
4.Never loose the hope if there is any
At the same time we have still got some hope of starting the project if we keep our head cool and think about the ways.
5.Hard to sideline anyone without any solid rason
You can not sideline any of your partner or employee unless you catch them red handed and they can not justify.
Thank You
Thats it for today
Sunday, May 21, 2017
Learn from everyone follow no one
We learn from many sources to develop ourselves but actually we get in to trap if we start following any one .every one is unique in his own way bill gates can not become sachin tendulkar and sachin can not become bill gates narendra modi can not become amitabh bachan and amitabh bachan can not become narendra modi .even if there is any possibility of one becoming other there are many situations and factors behind it and they are
It can happen only if we take one thing at a time or one by one.
Cuircumstances around that person has to be the same no necessarily the carbon copy but cause and effectwise
Last but not the least if person himself feels that its possible does not matter what other thinks
Now lets under stand this theory with an example.
Amit was braught up in an environment where everyone watches cricket he gets some exposure in his college and now there is high possibility of him becoming a cricketer on the other hand vijas was braught up in an environment where every one is good at studies and no one watchea cricket on tv.he goes to school where any way one has to study now there is a very less possibility of him becoming a cricketer and high possibility of doing good in the field related to studies. Now there is a third name neha who finds an environment of studies and also influeced by his brother who is a district level champion in badminton now she has the high possibility of doing good in both the fields now hers the confusion creeps in because ultimately at one has to take the call of choosing one and she choosess badminton now in this field the risk factor is much heigher than the studies and now she enjoys playing it is not bothered about the outcome no issues she will be happy whatever she achieves and definitely she will achieve something but now if she looks at other people who are better than her and Starts thinking i am not doing good negativity creeps in and she will not be happy wherein if she is still not bothered about the outcome she will be happy forever .but at the end of the day only your attitude will save you because she will face challnges and if she says come what may i will play only badminton there will be absolute clarity in her mind and she will be happy forever if she is fortunate to live her life
Thank u i dont know why i hav
It can happen only if we take one thing at a time or one by one.
Cuircumstances around that person has to be the same no necessarily the carbon copy but cause and effectwise
Last but not the least if person himself feels that its possible does not matter what other thinks
Now lets under stand this theory with an example.
Amit was braught up in an environment where everyone watches cricket he gets some exposure in his college and now there is high possibility of him becoming a cricketer on the other hand vijas was braught up in an environment where every one is good at studies and no one watchea cricket on tv.he goes to school where any way one has to study now there is a very less possibility of him becoming a cricketer and high possibility of doing good in the field related to studies. Now there is a third name neha who finds an environment of studies and also influeced by his brother who is a district level champion in badminton now she has the high possibility of doing good in both the fields now hers the confusion creeps in because ultimately at one has to take the call of choosing one and she choosess badminton now in this field the risk factor is much heigher than the studies and now she enjoys playing it is not bothered about the outcome no issues she will be happy whatever she achieves and definitely she will achieve something but now if she looks at other people who are better than her and Starts thinking i am not doing good negativity creeps in and she will not be happy wherein if she is still not bothered about the outcome she will be happy forever .but at the end of the day only your attitude will save you because she will face challnges and if she says come what may i will play only badminton there will be absolute clarity in her mind and she will be happy forever if she is fortunate to live her life
Thank u i dont know why i hav
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