We learn from many sources to develop ourselves but actually we get in to trap if we start following any one .every one is unique in his own way bill gates can not become sachin tendulkar and sachin can not become bill gates narendra modi can not become amitabh bachan and amitabh bachan can not become narendra modi .even if there is any possibility of one becoming other there are many situations and factors behind it and they are
It can happen only if we take one thing at a time or one by one.
Cuircumstances around that person has to be the same no necessarily the carbon copy but cause and effectwise
Last but not the least if person himself feels that its possible does not matter what other thinks
Now lets under stand this theory with an example.
Amit was braught up in an environment where everyone watches cricket he gets some exposure in his college and now there is high possibility of him becoming a cricketer on the other hand vijas was braught up in an environment where every one is good at studies and no one watchea cricket on tv.he goes to school where any way one has to study now there is a very less possibility of him becoming a cricketer and high possibility of doing good in the field related to studies. Now there is a third name neha who finds an environment of studies and also influeced by his brother who is a district level champion in badminton now she has the high possibility of doing good in both the fields now hers the confusion creeps in because ultimately at one has to take the call of choosing one and she choosess badminton now in this field the risk factor is much heigher than the studies and now she enjoys playing it is not bothered about the outcome no issues she will be happy whatever she achieves and definitely she will achieve something but now if she looks at other people who are better than her and Starts thinking i am not doing good negativity creeps in and she will not be happy wherein if she is still not bothered about the outcome she will be happy forever .but at the end of the day only your attitude will save you because she will face challnges and if she says come what may i will play only badminton there will be absolute clarity in her mind and she will be happy forever if she is fortunate to live her life
Thank u i dont know why i hav
It can happen only if we take one thing at a time or one by one.
Cuircumstances around that person has to be the same no necessarily the carbon copy but cause and effectwise
Last but not the least if person himself feels that its possible does not matter what other thinks
Now lets under stand this theory with an example.
Amit was braught up in an environment where everyone watches cricket he gets some exposure in his college and now there is high possibility of him becoming a cricketer on the other hand vijas was braught up in an environment where every one is good at studies and no one watchea cricket on tv.he goes to school where any way one has to study now there is a very less possibility of him becoming a cricketer and high possibility of doing good in the field related to studies. Now there is a third name neha who finds an environment of studies and also influeced by his brother who is a district level champion in badminton now she has the high possibility of doing good in both the fields now hers the confusion creeps in because ultimately at one has to take the call of choosing one and she choosess badminton now in this field the risk factor is much heigher than the studies and now she enjoys playing it is not bothered about the outcome no issues she will be happy whatever she achieves and definitely she will achieve something but now if she looks at other people who are better than her and Starts thinking i am not doing good negativity creeps in and she will not be happy wherein if she is still not bothered about the outcome she will be happy forever .but at the end of the day only your attitude will save you because she will face challnges and if she says come what may i will play only badminton there will be absolute clarity in her mind and she will be happy forever if she is fortunate to live her life
Thank u i dont know why i hav
